yeah, i'm bad with those. i'm even bad with people telling me i'm bad at taking criticism. so i'm really awful at it. it's something i must make an effort at changing. i've known this from a long long time ago, but i've never been proactive about becoming better at accepting the things that are wrong with me when people have the nerve to point it out (you see?). and i've even got slack abt not being able to. so i was reading something, and it said that our feelings come from inside us, and no one can really make us a feel a certain way...it's something that occurs from within and feelings have to be taken responsibility for and not to blame others when they are negative. made me wonder whether there's any truth in that...i've just not thought abt it like that before. but how does one improve on something that's so inherent? it's something i've known for years and it hasn't changed at all. maybe, however, this is the first time i'm taking responsibility for it...which is what may have changed. it's hard to accept that you have to teach youreself the wisdom that's required to tackle something of this magnitude. yup, it's of a great importance to what sort of person i am. i think if i could tackle this one issue, i could solve a lot of problems i have in relationships and also just allow my head a more stable spot on my shoulders. can one have a new year's resolution half way through the year?
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